Author: Ronni Lauren

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How To Hear the Voice of God

Hello family! Lately, God has put me in a season where I must trust him with all my heart and depend solely on him to get me through any obstacle that I am facing.  I’ve been more intentional about releasing worry and anxiety by praying to God about situations that cause me stress and that are beyond my control. I am learning to seek to hear only God’s voice when I am unsure of which direction or path to take next because it affirms and gives me clarity. This brings me to the message that I would like to share with you today on how to hear God’s voice.

The first thing that you must do to hear His voice is to quiet your mind and eliminate distractions by meditating on His Word. Reading devotionals and finding relevant scriptures that minister to your situation or problem can help you apply the Word to your life.

“This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it.”

Joshua 1:8 NKJV

Second, you must stay in his presence through prayer and worship. Prayer is a way to communicate with God, while worship is a way to show reverence and gratitude for His blessings. Whenever I make it a priority to pray and worship Him, my burden is lifted and my faith is elevated to a new level.

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.”

Philippians 4:6 NKJV

God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.”

John 4:24 NKJV

Thirdly, open your heart and ask God to purify it of anything that may hinder your mind from receiving His messages. When I ask the Lord to renew my heart, I can release unforgiveness and redirect my focus on Him.

“Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.”

Psalms 51:10 NKJV

Make sure you are open to receiving his messages and write down what he reveals to you. By keeping an open mind and being prepared to receive his messages, you can unlock valuable insights that may otherwise go unnoticed. Don’t forget to jot down what he reveals to you – that way, you’ll be able to refer to these revelations later and fully integrate them into your life.

Lastly, to recognize God’s voice and distinguish it from your thoughts, remember that His voice brings peace, and healing, shapes your future, and gives you hope and promise.

“For God is not the author of confusion but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints.”

I Corinthians 14:33 NKJV

“For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV

Be Blessed,

Ronni Lauren💗

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After the Rain…

“The Lord will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty, to send rain on your land in season and to bless all the work of your hands. You will lend to many nations but will borrow from none. If you pay attention to the commands of the Lord your God that I give you this day and carefully follow them, you will always be at the top, never at the bottom”.

Deuteronomy 28:12-13 NIV

Hello, everyone! This scripture was laid on my heart to share with someone who may be going through a difficult time and needs encouragement. The start of spring has brought me a lot of challenges. I have struggled to adapt to changes and navigate through uncertainties on my journey. During those times when I feel overwhelmed and like I’m losing my faith, God continues to remind me that He is my peace and source of strength. He has revealed to me that the rain I’ve experienced in my life through disappointments and painful experiences was necessary for my spiritual and mental growth.

 Just as rain is a necessity for plants to bloom, it’s vital for us to endure such difficult times to develop into the person God intended us to become. As I progress through this season, I will clear my mind and consider this time as a new beginning and rebirth. I am motivated and enthusiastic about the direction that God is leading me towards and the type of woman I am evolving into. Please remember that even when everything seems to be going wrong, we must trust in Him to guide us towards the promise.

Be blessed,

Ronni Lauren💋

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He has Risen! He is Our Strength!…

Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

Ephesians 3:20 NKJV

Hello family and Happy Resurrection Day! I hope everyone had a great day with their family, friends, and loved ones. Let us take time to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus and his continued presence in our lives. This scripture was laid on my heart to share as a reminder that God is our source of strength to navigate life’s challenges and achieve anything. All we need to do is express our desires, remain grateful, surrender our will, and trust in him to bring them to life. Reassurance from the Holy Spirit within us gives us the strength to overcome all obstacles and succeed. Whenever it feels like God’s presence is absent and I start to lose faith in a situation or circumstance working out in my favor, I am reminded that He is working behind the scenes on my behalf. He turns everything around in a way that surpasses my imagination.

Be Blessed,

Ronni Lauren💋

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Keeping My Mind on the Good…

“Whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy, think about such things.”

Philippians 4:8 NIV

Hello everyone! I wanted to share this scripture with you all today because it encourages me when I feel overwhelmed with negative thoughts, emotions, and the noise of world. I’ve found that when I take quiet moments to give thanks and reflect on all the good that God has done in my life, His peace comes over me. During these times, my faith increases, which helps me endure any storm that comes my way.

Remember that He is bigger than any problem you may be facing right now. Keep looking up and don’t focus on the obstacle in front of you. Let’s aim to live a life that pleases Him and spread His goodness to others. This is the key to maintaining peace of mind and experiencing unspeakable joy even when all hope seems lost.

Stay positive,

Ronni Lauren💋

A Healthier You Lifestyle

Hello everyone! In honor of Women’s History Month, I wanted to share an inspirational post with you about how to live a healthier “you” lifestyle. I talk about my self-love journey a lot in my blog posts, but starting this journey has helped me discover how essential pouring love back into myself is to my well-being. My new motto to live by is that true happiness starts within, and it radiates outwards. To make happiness my reality, I have decided to redirect my focus on healing and becoming a healthier me inside and out by making it my new way of life. A healthier “you” lifestyle involves being healthy mentally, spiritually, and physically.  

First, to become healthier mentally and spiritually I made it a priority to seek a deeper relationship with God and to grow more in my faith. A scripture that comes to mind that emphasizes the significance of renewing your mind is Romans 12:2.  

“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. “

Romans 12:2 KJV

 Reconnecting with God through prayer and meditating on his word transformed my mind, rebuilt my self-esteem, restored my heart, and helped me discover my identity and purpose. The more I began to surrender my will and let go of things I had no control over, the more my faith in his character and trust in his intentions for my life grew.  His peace eliminated any feelings of worry and doubt. If we are still in moments of uncertainty and listen for his voice and the next steps to take, he will reveal the next step that we need to take to enter the next phase of the journey. If we let him lead us, he will reveal to us how each step and phase of the journey is a part of the bigger plan that he has for your life.

In addition, I began working on becoming healthier physically by changing my diet, exercising, resting, and enhancing my natural beauty.  A scripture that comes to mind that reminds us of the importance of honoring God with our bodies is 1 Corinthians 6:19-20

“For you were bought at a price; therefore, glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s”

1 Corinthians 6:20 NKJV

I changed my diet by adding more fruits, vegetables, and fish, and reducing sodium and sugar in my diet. Ever since I started eating healthier, I have noticed that I feel less tired and irritable. Also, I started taking more supplements to replenish the vitamins and nutrients that my body was lacking. As a result, my hormones are more balanced, and I can digest food better. Drinking more water has helped me feel more hydrated.  To keep my body physically fit, I started working out at home using a fitness app and I sometimes go to the gym for Zumba classes.

I am also more conscious about alleviating stress on my body by taking time for rest. As an outlet for relaxation, I am also intentional about being creative. My favorite hobbies include journaling, reading, baking, and interior decorating.

Finally, becoming more physically fit has motivated me to maintain my natural beauty. One of my favorite scriptures that comes to mind that is a reminder that God intentionally created us to be who we are for his glory is Psalms 139:14.

“I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your Works,

And that my soul knows very well.”

Psalms 139:14 NKJV

 It has taken me years to embrace the real me and I intend to unapologetically show up in the world as this version of myself. I am committed to a weekly self-care routine for my hair and skin. To improve my smile, I invested in Invisalign, and go to the dentist regularly for cleanings and maintenance. Whenever I need a beauty or wardrobe makeover to lift my spirits, I reward myself with new beauty products and clothing that complement my personality and body type.

I am a firm believer that you shouldn’t look like what you have been through. This belief empowers me to live a lifestyle that will help me become a healthier me inside and out and I hope you are empowered too.

Be a Healthier You!

Ronni Lauren💋

New Year, Embracing the New You!

“Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert.”

Isaiah 43:19 KJV

Hello, Sassy family! Happy New Year! Sorry for checking in so late in the New Year. I hope everyone’s year is off to a great start. This is my first post of 2024 and I’m so glad to be back. I’m not sure if anyone can relate, but January has flown by, and I am still trying to catch up in February.

Each year gives us a chance to make a brand-new start and one step closer to making our dreams a reality. Since New Year’s resolutions are sometimes forgotten after January, I decided to create an action plan that will help keep me focused and motivated to execute each action step in the plan. My action plan for this year includes the following action steps:

  1. Walk boldly in my purpose.
  2. Let faith be bigger than my fear.
  3. Give myself more grace and take one step at a time to achieve a goal.
  4. Embrace all the parts of the woman I am becoming, past and present.
  5. Be grateful for each moment that I have experienced on my journey.
  6. Posture my heart to surrender every aspect of my life to God’s will.
  7. Be more intentional about growing my relationship with God by spending more time with him will help keep me focused and give me the strength to continue taking steps toward living my dream life. 

 I hope that the action steps I have shared will inspire you to create a personal action plan.  The scripture that was laid on my heart to share with you all is Isaiah 43:19. I truly believe that God is doing a new thing within and all around us. We must trust in his plan and embrace the new beginnings.

Whenever I attempt to repeat old patterns of thinking or ways of doing a thing, I find myself feeling extremely uncomfortable and unable to go back to the woman I once was. It’s like when a plant grows new roots and must be repotted to keep it growing and healthy. I now know that God is transforming my mind and preparing me for my destiny.

I’m determined to push forward in faith because my purpose is bigger than me. Each day, I grow more excited for God to reveal more about my purpose, the woman he designed me to be, and to receive all the blessings God has in store this year and I’m believing that he will do the same for you too!  

Be blessed and may your year be amazing!

Ronni Lauren💋

Skin Savvy Tips: Loving the Skin, You’re In!

Hello my Sassy squad! I remember as a teenager, I had the worst struggle with acne and oily skin. I tried almost every skin care product on the market at the time, but everything was either too harsh or made my skin too dry. I used to think that the chance of me ever having clear skin was impossible. In my 20s I learned that the key to clear skin was to learn more about which products are appropriate for your skin type. Using the products helped to clear my skin, but I still experienced occasional breakouts and hyperpigmentation.

I have now discovered in my 30s that you must establish a skincare routine for the morning and nighttime and practice it consistently. According to Good House Keeping Magazine, “Ashley Magovern, M.D., a dermatologist, owner, and founder of Manhattan Beach, California says that the three main steps of your skin-care routine consist of cleansing, treating, and moisturizing”. (Berohn, K. and Price, D. (2023, Mar 17). The Best Daily Skincare Routine: How to Build the Perfect At-Home Regimen for Your Skin Type. Good Housekeeping. https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/beauty/anti-aging/a22850819/best-skincare-routine/)

The skin care products that I currently use in my beauty regimen consists of cleanser, toner, serum, and sunscreen for combination skin. I also use a steamer and Microderm tool monthly. I noticed that ever since I have been following this routine my skin has been clearer, but it is also hydrated and glowing. Many people don’t believe that I’m in my 30s because of how young I look.

There is one more important step to add to your skin regimen and that is to love the skin you’re in. This involves not only caring for your skin with beauty products but also embracing the real you on the inside. I’m a firm believer that beauty is skin deep. If you make it a priority to love who you are, this will radiate outwards through your skin and other areas of your life!

Be Beautiful!

Ronni Lauren💋

Reference:

(Berohn, K. and Price, D. (2023, Mar 17). The Best Daily Skincare Routine: How to Build the Perfect At-Home Regimen for Your Skin Type. Good Housekeeping. https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/beauty/anti-aging/a22850819/best-skincare-routine/

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“To all who mourn in Israel, he will give a crown of beauty for ashes, a joyous blessing instead of mourning, festive praise instead of despair.

In their righteousness, they will be like great oaks that the Lord has planted for his own glory.”

Isaiah 61:3 NLT

Hi my spiritual fam! This scripture was laid on my heart to share with you all today. Please be encouraged that times of disappointment, sadness, and uncertainty will not last always.

We must trust God, continue in faith, and believe with our whole hearts that our moment of breakthrough will come.

Whenever doubt comes as a distraction, redirect your thoughts on walking into the promise that God has revealed to you. Everything you lost will be restored. Get ready to receive all the good things that he has in store for you!

Be blessed,

Ronni Lauren💋

Sassy State of Mind💋…

“The best color in the whole world is the one that looks good on you. “

-Coco Chanel

Hi, Sassy fam! I came across this quote today and I had to share it with you. All my fashionistas may be able to relate when I say that choosing colors that compliment your skin tone and personality is key. Wearing certain colors can have a significant impact on our complexion, either enhancing its natural radiance or making it look dull.

In addition, certain colors can have a positive impact on our personality. For example, some colors can make us feel more bold, confident, or outgoing. It’s amazing how much impact colors can have on our overall mood and attitude.

Always remember to choose colors that make you feel fabulous inside and out. I truly believe that the energy we put out into the world is the same energy we attract back to us. It’s important to always try to radiate positivity, kindness, and love. When we do so, we are more likely to attract those same qualities in the people and experiences that come into our lives.

It’s a powerful concept, and one that has helped me stay grounded and focused on being my best self. Let’s show up in the world as the woman we are becoming and not who we once were. Who’s ready to rise and slay another day in fashion with me?

Live Fabulous,

Ronni Lauren💋

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“For with God, nothing will be impossible”.

Luke 1:37 NKJV

Hi, my spiritual family! I’ve been in a season of growth. My faith is being tested to the point where the only thing I can do is put my trust in God when it seems like everything around me is beyond my control. Let this scripture encourage and remind you that you are not alone in challenging times. In these times, we must draw closer to him for strength to overcome any challenge or obstacle that may come our way.

In periods of uncertainty, we must re-train our minds to focus on the plans God has placed in our hearts and tune out the voices of doubt, fear, and worry. We must be still and listen for his voice to comfort, guide, and unveil the next step to take on our journey. Remember that the obstacles we overcome are shaping us into the version of ourselves that God desires for us to become.

As I look back over my life, I can’t recall a time that God has failed me, even when the situation seemed overwhelming and impossible to overcome. With God, all things are made possible if we open our hearts to believe it and let his word order our steps to reach the promise.

Love Always,

Ronni Lauren💋