Hello my Sassy family! Have you ever felt powerless?
I have—more times than I’d like to admit. There have been seasons in my life where I underestimated my power, not because I didn’t have any, but because I got lost in how others see me or comparing myself to others. I allowed people’s perceptions of me to define my worth, placing myself in a box I didn’t belong in. I dimmed my light, silenced my voice, and questioned my own value—all because I forgot that I had power to begin with.
This quote is a reminder that personal power begins in the mind. Too often, people accept limitations that were never truly theirs—whether imposed by fear, society, past mistakes, or self-doubt.
We must reflect on the silent ways we surrender our influence and how reclaiming our power starts with believing in our worth, voice, and ability to create change.
You don’t have to be in a position of status to make an impact. Your thoughts, choices, and courage matter. Recognizing that you do have power—right now—is the first step toward living boldly, authentically, and purposefully.
Stop waiting for permission to be powerful. You already are.
Hey, Sassy Squad! Lately, I’ve been reflecting on how God is revealing more of who I truly am—the person He created me to be. He’s been reminding me that I am wonderfully unique, with hidden treasure inside that only He could place there. Today, I want to share this message with anyone who feels not enough or insignificant: YOU carry hidden treasure within you too!
That treasure is waiting to be uncovered and shared with the world, but it’s all in God’s perfect timing. Remember, He made us each one-of-a-kind— with special gifts, quirks, and talents. These are the treasures that only we can bring to the world. Your hidden treasure is directly tied to your purpose, and it is meant to be used for His glory. It’s crucial that we don’t get lost in comparing ourselves to others or live inauthentically. Instead, we must refocus on embracing who God created us to be and realign ourselves with the purpose He has set for us.
I remember a time when I believed my value was defined by others’ perceptions or by being in a romantic relationship. I often wondered why I never quite fit in, why I wasn’t chosen by a crush, or why the love I gave wasn’t always reciprocated. There was a time when I even felt unworthy of love or value. But looking back, as I began my journey of self-love and healing, God revealed to me that He loves me unconditionally, wants the best for me, and was protecting my hidden treasure all this time. The wrong person will never recognize the value of your treasure because they’re not worthy of safeguarding it.
This is why it’s so important not to rush the process or feel anxious about being discovered—if your treasure falls into the wrong hands, it can prevent you from living as your true best self and hinder you from walking boldly in your purpose.
We must recognize and wholeheartedly embrace our worth, trusting that God will lead us to the right person who will enhance, honor, and protect our value, just as God showers us with unconditional love.
Hello Sassy Squad! Embracing authenticity has been a constant theme on the journey of becoming my best self. Every day, I’m reminded of the importance of staying true to myself—no matter the cost. This powerful quote reminds us of the importance of authenticity and self-acceptance.
In a world that often pressures us to conform or imitate others, Garland’s words encourage us to embrace our uniqueness and strive to be the best version of ourselves.
Authenticity unlocks confidence and brings true joy. By valuing our own identity and talents, we develop personal growth and success that feels real and meaningful.
Being a “first-rate version” means celebrating our uniqueness—our strengths, flaws, dreams, and passions. It’s about resisting the urge to compare ourselves to others or to mold our identity to fit societal expectations. Instead, it’s choosing to live genuinely, honoring who we truly are.
When we attempt to be like someone else, we only become a shadow of their greatness, losing our own potential in the process. True fulfillment comes when we let our own light shine, no matter how different or unconventional it may seem.
Lastly, let this quote be a reminder to stop comparing and start celebrating the one-of-a-kind person you already are.
Hello, Sassy Squad! I have had this on my heart for a while, and I’m finally ready to share it with you. Transforming my smile enhanced my appearance and empowered me to embrace life and joy with renewed confidence. Before sharing the results of my smile makeover, I should explain the context of how my smile was before the transformation.
As a quiet and shy child, smiling became my way of connecting with the world. It was my way of holding on to optimism, no matter what, and sharing that positive energy with everyone around me. That smile became my superpower, spreading positivity to everyone I met.
My friends started calling me “Smiley” because I smiled so much. When I was 6 years old, a freak accident changed my smile. One day, while I was walking home, I got spooked by a dog chasing me and kept glancing behind in fear. Before I knew it, I ran straight into a streetlight pole, and the impact chipped my front tooth.
All my life, I have struggled with confidence, and when I damaged my smile, it only made things worse from my teenage years into adulthood. A bright smile can truly transform how we see ourselves and how others see us. I remember hiding my smile in pictures and feeling self-conscious when talking to others because I thought that everyone was staring at my chipped tooth.
Fast forward to 2020, I began my self-love journey by enhancing my overall wellness, mentally, physically, and spiritually. In 2022, I finally faced my fears and went to the orthodontist to fix my smile with Invisalign. For those who may not be familiar with Invisalign, it is an alternative to traditional metal braces. Instead of brackets and wires, Invisalign uses a series of clear aligners to help straighten your teeth. The number of aligners you receive will depend on the length of your specific treatment. In my case, it took me two years to complete the orthodontic treatment.
My smile journey was challenging and rewarding at the same time. There were times when I felt like I couldn’t endure the treatment until the end, but what motivated me to keep going was the happiness and joy I knew I would experience with my transformation upon completing it. Most importantly, I clung to the promise that God gave me about restoring my smile.
Since completing my orthodontic treatment in 2024, I have become a better version of myself. I am continually gaining back my confidence and gratitude for every challenge I faced on this journey toward loving the woman I’m becoming. I’ve been more intentional about embracing my authentic self.
Cultivating my mental, spiritual, and physical wellness has allowed me to fully embrace the authentic self that God created. I have recently discovered that my smile journey has deepened my love for who I truly am. When I chose to fix my smile, it was a way to nurture my inner child and restore my joy within.
I hope my smile journey has inspired and encouraged you to prioritize being your authentic self, no matter what — even if the whole world is on a different path. Always choose to follow your joy in every life decision you make and in the people you surround yourself with. Ultimately, you only have one life to live, so cherish love, hope, and happiness in all forms. Who is prepared to be their best selves and live the life they were meant to live?
“Be the “Summer Friday” in a Room Full of “Per My Last Email”
~Anonymous
Hello, Sassy family! While enjoying, Dove Chocolate, one of my favorite chocolate candy brands, I came across this quote inside the wrapper and it inspired me so much that I had to share it with you. I’m sure many of you can relate: whenever I walk into a room, I make it a point to show up as my true, unique self. In a world filled with stiff professionalism and impersonal interactions, it can be easy to feel like you don’t blend in.
But as someone who tends to be more quiet and an observer, fashion has always been my way of expressing the creative, fun, and bold sides of my personality. I hope this message reminds you to embrace your own light—especially in those moments when darkness seems to surround you, and others may not be open to receiving it.
Never underestimate the power of your presence. Whether through your voice, your hairstyle, makeup, or the colors and style of your outfit, you can brighten any space. It’s taken me a lifetime to learn this, but I’m realizing that it’s never too late to dance to the beat of your own drum.
No matter where you are, when you come from a place of positivity and good intentions, you have the power to shift the energy of any room—even in the midst of tension, impersonal interactions, or toxic vibes. So go ahead—share your light with the world!
Be the light, live fearlessly! Let your courage shine brightly and inspire those around you.
Hello Sassy family! I came across another quote and just had to share it with you. Remember to live a life you truly love, one that’s uniquely yours.
Cherish every moment and every lesson along the way. Embrace the journey and create the story only you are meant to tell—live with intention, because no one else can live your life for you.
Hello Sassy Squad! In a world where so many try to blend in, keep choosing to stand out and be authentically you. Don’t let the pressure to conform shape who you are. Let your unique character and personality shine brightly. Your style and glam only enhance the beauty that already radiates from within. Embrace a lifestyle of elegance.
“The true beauty of a woman is reflected in her soul.”
~Audrey Hepburn
Hello Sassy Squad! I came across this quote today and just had to share it with you. How many of you have heard the saying “beauty is only skin deep”? I must admit that I never truly understood the deeper meaning of this saying until I was in my thirties. Looking back, I remember comparing myself to others and feeling like I was weird and unattractive because I didn’t fit into the world’s standards of beauty. I was tall and skinny, with almond-shaped eyes and a crooked smile.
Now I understand that being unique was only a part of my beauty. The true essence of beauty is in how you interact with others and present yourself to the world. It’s about being unapologetically authentic, even when societal norms are pressuring you. I’ve realized that how we take care of ourselves mentally, physically, and emotionally is reflected in the way we show up in the world.
You should be loved in the same way you love others, as happiness comes from within and shines outward. Embracing your genuine beauty and revealing your true self can have a great impact in the world around you. Are you ready to embrace your true beauty and make a difference with me today?
Hello my Sassy squad! I remember as a teenager, I had the worst struggle with acne and oily skin. I tried almost every skin care product on the market at the time, but everything was either too harsh or made my skin too dry. I used to think that the chance of me ever having clear skin was impossible. In my 20s I learned that the key to clear skin was to learn more about which products are appropriate for your skin type. Using the products helped to clear my skin, but I still experienced occasional breakouts and hyperpigmentation.
I have now discovered in my 30s that you must establish a skincare routine for the morning and nighttime and practice it consistently. According to Good House Keeping Magazine, “Ashley Magovern, M.D., a dermatologist, owner, and founder of Manhattan Beach, California says that the three main steps of your skin-care routine consist of cleansing, treating, and moisturizing”. (Berohn, K. and Price, D. (2023, Mar 17). The Best Daily Skincare Routine: How to Build the Perfect At-Home Regimen for Your Skin Type. Good Housekeeping. https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/beauty/anti-aging/a22850819/best-skincare-routine/)
The skin care products that I currently use in my beauty regimen consists of cleanser, toner, serum, and sunscreen for combination skin. I also use a steamer and Microderm tool monthly. I noticed that ever since I have been following this routine my skin has been clearer, but it is also hydrated and glowing. Many people don’t believe that I’m in my 30s because of how young I look.
There is one more important step to add to your skin regimen and that is to love the skin you’re in. This involves not only caring for your skin with beauty products but also embracing the real you on the inside. I’m a firm believer that beauty is skin deep. If you make it a priority to love who you are, this will radiate outwards through your skin and other areas of your life!
Sassy. Spirit. Savvy 