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Embracing the New Year: Lessons from 2025 & Choosing Priorities Over Resolutions🎉

Happy New Year family! As the calendar turns and the noise of “new year, new you” gets louder, I find myself asking a different question: What if this year isn’t about becoming someone new, but about becoming more intentional? Instead of rushing to set resolutions, I’ve been reflecting on the year I’m leaving behind, the lessons that shaped me, the moments that stretched me, and the growth that didn’t always look the way I expected.

2025 reminded me that growth is rarely loud. Sometimes it happens quietly through patience learned the hard way, boundaries set with courage, and faith strengthened in seasons of uncertainty. I learned that not every loss is a failure and not every delay is denial. Some things had to fall apart so better things could take shape. And some lessons only came when I stopped fighting and started trusting.

This past year also taught me the importance of grace for myself when I didn’t get it right, and grace for others when expectations weren’t met. I learned that rest is not a reward but a requirement, and that saying “no” can be just as powerful as saying “yes.” Most importantly, 2025 showed me that God’s timing is still perfect, even when it doesn’t align with my own.

As I step into the new year, I’m choosing priorities over resolutions. Resolutions often feel rigid and rooted in pressure to do more, be more, and fix everything. Priorities, feel intentional and life-giving. They allow room for growth without guilt and progress without perfection.

My priorities for the year ahead are simple but meaningful: to protect my peace, nurture my faith, and remain present in the moments that matter most. I want to prioritize alignment over approval, obedience over obligation, and consistency over comparison. Instead of striving to become a completely new version of myself, I’m committed to becoming a more grounded, faithful, and intentional one.

This new year isn’t about proving anything, it’s about becoming. Becoming wiser, softer, stronger, and more anchored in purpose. I’m walking forward carrying the lessons of 2025, not as baggage, but as wisdom.

So here’s to the year ahead: may we move forward with clarity, courage, and compassion. May we release what no longer serves us and embrace what calls us higher. And may we choose priorities that align with who we are becoming, not just who the world tells us to be.

Cheers to a new year and to walking into it with intention.

Live Fearless and With Intention!

đź’—Ronni Lauren

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Sassy State of Mind💋…Life Expands When You Do

“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”

~AnaĂŻs Nin

Hello Sassy family! Have you ever felt that quiet tug in your heart to do more, be more, or try again, but fear keeps whispering, what if you fail? Maybe you’ve found yourself playing it safe, staying comfortable, or putting your dreams on pause because stepping out feels too risky. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone, and this quote might be the gentle nudge your heart needs today.

Anaïs Nin reminds us that courage isn’t about being fearless, it’s about choosing movement even when fear is present. Every brave decision, no matter how small, creates more room in your life. More room for growth. More room for joy. More room for becoming who you were always meant to be.

Courage looks different for each of us. Sometimes it’s saying no when you’ve always said yes. Sometimes it’s walking away from what’s familiar to make space for what’s healthier. Other times, it’s believing again after disappointment, opening your heart after hurt, or trusting God even when the path ahead isn’t clear.

When we shrink back, life begins to feel limited. We settle. We dim our light. We convince ourselves that comfort is safer than calling. But when we choose courage when we dare to hope, to heal, to try again: life responds by expanding. Opportunities appear. Confidence grows. Purpose becomes clearer.

Here’s the beautiful truth: courage doesn’t require perfection. It only asks for willingness. Willingness to take the next step. Willingness to trust that you are stronger than your fear. Willingness to believe that there is more for you on the other side of obedience and bold faith.

So today, ask yourself: Where have I been shrinking when I was meant to expand? What would change if you chose courage in that space?

Let this be your reminder: your life is not meant to be lived small. You were created for fullness, depth, and purpose. And with every courageous choice you make, life grows right alongside you.

Let’s grow together, one courageous step at a time.

Live Fearlessly,

đź©·Ronni Lauren

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More Than a Fairy Tale: Trusting God’s Promise for Love

Hello family! Have you ever felt like God placed a specific love story in your heart? A story so beautiful that it feels like something out of a fairy tale?

Lately, God has been gently reminding me of the promise He planted within me. He’s showing me that the love story He has for me will unfold like a fairy tale written by His hand, full of wonder, growth, and a love that’s worth the wait.

As a little girl, I would spend hours playing with dolls, creating my own worlds and storylines. I didn’t know it then, but even as a child, I was shaping what I believed a healthy relationship and family could look like. Through those playtime moments, I wasn’t just passing the time I was building the blueprint for the love I aspired to experience and the life I dreamed of living. I now realize that what I created was a reflection of what my heart deeply desired for myself.

Even now, God is showing me that the love story He’s placed in my heart is not just a childish dream. It’s a promise.

Fairy tales aren’t just about magical moments and happy endings. They’re about the journey, the challenges, the waiting, and the discovery. In every fairy tale, the main character often faces detours, obstacles, and moments of doubt. Sometimes, they feel overlooked, forgotten, or stuck in an in-between season, unsure if their story will ever unfold the way they hoped.

But what makes a fairy tale beautiful is that the Author always knows the ending.

God is reminding me to wait with the same kind of hope.

To wait with trust.

To wait with patience.

To believe that even in the waiting, my story is being written, and every chapter has purpose.

Sometimes waiting feels like standing on the sidelines, watching everyone else’s story unfold while wondering if mine was ever real. But God is teaching me that I don’t have to write the story myself. I don’t have to chase it, force it, or settle for something less. I just have to trust the One who is writing it.

The love story God placed in my heart will be one of adventure, authenticity, and deep connection…Like the best fairy tales, where love finds you in the most unexpected way, where the journey matters just as much as the ending, and where the story is even more beautiful than you imagined.

If God has placed a love story in your heart, trust that He’s not teasing you. He’s teaching you. Every season of waiting, every detour, and every quiet moment is part of a divine script only He could write. Don’t rush the Author.

The story He’s writing for you will be more beautiful, more meaningful, and more full of purpose than anything you could have imagined. Keep believing. Your fairy tale is unfolding…one faithful page at a time.

Live faithfully!

Love Always,

đź’—Ronni Lauren

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A New Year, A New Chapter: Wishing You Joy, Hope, and Happiness

As we step into the first day of this brand-new year, there’s a unique magic in the air—a sense of renewal, possibility, and excitement. 

The New Year isn’t just a change on the calendar; it’s a fresh page waiting to be written. It’s a chance to set new goals, rediscover old dreams, and nurture the things that bring us joy. Whether your past year was filled with triumphs or challenges—or perhaps a mix of both—this is your opportunity to start anew with hope in your heart and purpose in your step.

To everyone reading this, I wish you boundless happiness in the days to come. May laughter find its way into your everyday moments, and may you be surrounded by the people and passions that lift you up. Let this year be one of growth—whether it’s personal, professional, or simply learning to embrace the small joys that life offers.

Remember, the journey ahead is yours to shape. Take the leap into unfamiliar opportunities, nurture connections that bring light into your life, and most importantly, believe in your ability to create something extraordinary.

Here’s to a year of hope, resilience, and celebration. Let’s embark on this chapter together, hand in hand with optimism and determination. Cheers to you and all the wonderful possibilities this New Year holds!

Happy New Year! Let’s make it a truly remarkable one.

Live fearlessly!

Love,

đź’›Ronni Lauren

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Soul Food: Stepping Into the Unknown by Faith🙏🏾🪴💗

“By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive as his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going.” (Hebrews 11:8, NIV)

Hello, my spiritual family! Many of us can relate to feeling afraid to take a leap of faith into the unknown.

This scripture invites us to reflect on our own faith journey. During times of uncertainty, we must lean on our faith and trust in God. Reflecting on my journey, I can see how God has guided and protected me, revealing each step and directing my path. All we need to do is take that first step.

Like Abraham, we may not always know the exact destination, but we are called to obey and trust that God is leading us toward something greater than we can imagine. Whether it’s a new calling, a difficult season, or a major decision, the story of Abraham reminds us that faith isn’t about certainty but about following God’s lead and trusting Him with the unknown.

Abraham’s faith demonstrates the essence of living by faith—obedience to God’s call without needing all the answers. It challenges us to take steps of faith, trusting in God’s leading even when the path is unclear. Just as Abraham’s journey became the foundation of God’s promises to Israel, our personal faith journey can lay the groundwork for God’s work in our lives and the world around us.

Live faithfully!

Love,

đź’—Ronni Lauren

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Sassy State of Mind: “Turning ‘Impossible Into I’m Possible’

Hello Sassy Squad! I came across this quote today and I’m excited to share it with you. The quote, “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says ‘I’m possible,'” by Audrey Hepburn is a powerful reminder of the potential within each of us to overcome challenges. It shifts the narrative of impossibility into a mindset of opportunity and self-belief.

A positive mindset and reframing our perceptions of challenges can transform our approach to life. Determination, creativity, and resilience transform once-unattainable goals into achievable realities. By embracing a mindset of possibility, we empower ourselves to dream bigger and take actionable steps toward our aspirations.

I hope this inspires you to challenge limiting beliefs, redefine boundaries, and view obstacles as opportunities for growth.

Whether you’re facing personal or professional hurdles, this piece is a reminder that with the right perspective, even the word “impossible” can turn into a declaration of possibility: “I’m possible.”

Live Fearless!

Love Always,

Ronni Laurenđź’‹

How to Pursue Your Purpose

Hello family! I used to believe that one’s purpose was their livelihood and passion. But as I started pursuing my purpose in my thirties, I discovered that it meant so much more. It is linked to my identity and calling which gave my life a deeper meaning. Not only does it provide a sense of self, but it serves others and honors God.

“For we are his workmanship created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.”

Ephesians 2:10 NKJV

   I remember praying many times, asking Him to reveal my purpose and it seemed like my prayer wasn’t answered. I began to feel overwhelmed, thinking that He had no purpose for me because I was shy, quiet, and socially awkward. I have come to realize that every season of my life has been preparation for my purpose.

He genuinely has our best interests at heart, and we need to trust the process and the plan to help us achieve our destiny. Sometimes the process might seem challenging or uncertain, but having faith in the plan and the person behind it can make a big difference. This brings me to the message that I would like to share with you all on how to pursue your purpose.

The first step for me was to commit to living a life that pleases God and allow Him to guide my steps on my purpose journey.  Committing to a purpose-driven life isn’t easy. It is filled with both challenges and growth.  You must decide to leave the old you behind, patterns of thinking, and life habits, and embrace the person he has called you to be. He will prepare you with the character and wisdom necessary to fulfill your purpose at the right time.

“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”

Romans 12:2 NKJV  

Next, you must align your life with your purpose. My purpose was revealed the more time I spent with God through prayer and meditating on His word. When I decided to commit my life to Him, he began to connect the dots of my past and present to my purpose. He is waiting for you to surrender your will and say yes to walking in your purpose.

“For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.”

Ephesians 2:10 NKJV

In addition, you must let go of fear. I must admit that when God revealed my purpose to me, I was fearful and in denial that I was the person called to fulfill it. It involved using the one thing that I avoided the most, which was my voice. At times I still feel that I’m unworthy of the purpose and plan that God has for my life, but I’m learning to silence the noise of my negative thoughts. I am reminded that His grace is sufficient in my weakness and that my purpose is much bigger than me.

“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control.”

2 Timothy 1:7 NKJV

Last, if you’ve ever felt discouraged about your purpose, don’t be afraid because you were created specifically for it. This scripture encourages me to keep walking in my calling when I get discouraged and I hope that you are too.

If you’ve ever felt discouraged about your purpose, remember that you were created specifically for it. This scripture inspires me to stay true to my calling even in challenging times, and I hope it encourages you too. May you stay motivated and steadfast in the pursuit of your unique purpose.

“Being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ.”

Philippians 1:6 NKJV

 All you must do is say YES to your purpose, and He will do the rest.

Live Purposefully,

đź’—Ronni Lauren

Sassy State of Mindđź’‹

“The future belongs to those who belong in the beauty of their dreams.”

-Eleanor Roosevelt

Hi, Sassy fam! I found this quote today and just had to share it with you. It serves as a reminder to refocus on the dreams and promises God has placed in my heart. I hope that it motivates you to do the same.

Be intentional about the steps you take toward making your dreams a reality. Your happiness and future depend on it. Every step you take toward your dream brings you closer to becoming the person you were meant to be and living the life you were meant to live.

His strength will empower and sustain you as you transform into the best version of yourself and get acclimated to a new way of life. Whenever you feel overwhelmed and unworthy of the greatness that lies ahead.

Remember that you are worthy and deserving of all the blessings coming your way. You were born to live a beautiful life. I am rooting for you to keep going. We are in this together! Our destiny awaits!

Live Fabulous!

đź’—Ronni Lauren

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After the Rain…

“The Lord will open the heavens, the storehouse of his bounty, to send rain on your land in season and to bless all the work of your hands. You will lend to many nations but will borrow from none. If you pay attention to the commands of the Lord your God that I give you this day and carefully follow them, you will always be at the top, never at the bottom”.

Deuteronomy 28:12-13 NIV

Hello, everyone! This scripture was laid on my heart to share with someone who may be going through a difficult time and needs encouragement. The start of spring has brought me a lot of challenges. I have struggled to adapt to changes and navigate through uncertainties on my journey. During those times when I feel overwhelmed and like I’m losing my faith, God continues to remind me that He is my peace and source of strength. He has revealed to me that the rain I’ve experienced in my life through disappointments and painful experiences was necessary for my spiritual and mental growth.

 Just as rain is a necessity for plants to bloom, it’s vital for us to endure such difficult times to develop into the person God intended us to become. As I progress through this season, I will clear my mind and consider this time as a new beginning and rebirth. I am motivated and enthusiastic about the direction that God is leading me towards and the type of woman I am evolving into. Please remember that even when everything seems to be going wrong, we must trust in Him to guide us towards the promise.

Be blessed,

Ronni Laurenđź’‹

Soul Food🙏🏾🪴💗

“To all who mourn in Israel, he will give a crown of beauty for ashes, a joyous blessing instead of mourning, festive praise instead of despair.

In their righteousness, they will be like great oaks that the Lord has planted for his own glory.”

Isaiah 61:3 NLT

Hi my spiritual fam! This scripture was laid on my heart to share with you all today. Please be encouraged that times of disappointment, sadness, and uncertainty will not last always.

We must trust God, continue in faith, and believe with our whole hearts that our moment of breakthrough will come.

Whenever doubt comes as a distraction, redirect your thoughts on walking into the promise that God has revealed to you. Everything you lost will be restored. Get ready to receive all the good things that he has in store for you!

Be blessed,

Ronni Laurenđź’‹