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Soul Food🙏🏾🪴💜: “I Would Have Lost Heart… But God”

Hello Sassy family! Have you ever found yourself in a season where you had to keep believing even when you couldn’t see the outcome? A season where you smiled on the outside but quietly whispered, “God, I need You to remind me that You are still working”?

If this is the current season you’re in, Psalms 27:13 was laid on my heart to share with you.

“I would have lost heart, unless I had believed that I would see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living.” ~Psalm 27:13 (NKJV)

This verse reminds us that faith is not the absence of difficult moments, it is the decision to keep trusting God in the middle of them.

There will be times when life doesn’t look like what you prayed for. Doors may close. Delays may come. Dreams may feel like they are taking longer than expected. But don’t allow a temporary season to make you forget an eternal promise: God is still good, and He is still writing your story.

Sometimes we are tempted to lose heart because we focus on what we can see instead of remembering who is holding our future. But faith gives us the courage to say, “I may not understand this chapter, but I trust the Author.”

The same God who carried you through yesterday is already preparing the blessings waiting for you tomorrow. The waiting season is not wasted. The quiet season is not empty. The hidden season is not forgotten. God is strengthening your faith, shaping your character, and preparing you for what He has promised.

So today, take a moment to encourage your own heart:

💜 I will not give up because God has not given up on me.
💜 I will not lose hope because God is still working behind the scenes.
💜 I will believe that I will see the goodness of the Lord.

Please remember your breakthrough may not come on your timeline, but God’s timing is always intentional. Keep praying. Keep believing. Keep showing up. The same God who gave you the promise is faithful enough to bring it to pass.

Reflection Question:
What is one area of your life where God is asking you to hold onto hope and believe that you will see His goodness?

Prayer:
Lord, when my heart feels tired and my faith feels small, remind me that You are still working. Help me trust Your timing, believe Your promises, and see Your goodness even in seasons of waiting. Strengthen my heart so I do not give up before I see what You have prepared for me. Amen.

Your story is not over. God is still writing beautiful things. Keep the faith, keep the hope, and keep shining.

Stay Sassy. Stay Savvy. Stay True.

Live Faithful,

💜Ronni Lauren

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Soul Food🙏🏾🪴🩷: Come As You Are, Finding Rest In Jesus Arms

“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” — Matthew 11:28–29 (NKJV)

Hello Sassy Family! Life has a way of piling things on our shoulders. Responsibilities. Expectations. Heartbreak. Deadlines. Family obligations. Financial pressures. The pressure to always have it all together.

When was the last time you truly felt rested, not just physically, but deep in your soul?

Sometimes we’re carrying so much that we don’t even realize how exhausted we’ve become.

The beautiful thing about Jesus is that He never asks us to pretend we’re okay. Instead, He simply says, “Come.”

Many of us have been conditioned to believe that rest is a reward for hard work. We tell ourselves:

“Once I finish this project, I’ll rest.”

“Once I reach this goal, I’ll slow down.”

“Once everyone else is taken care of, then I’ll take care of myself.”

But His invitation isn’t based on our performance; it’s based on His love.

He knows the weight you’ve been carrying.

He sees the silent battles no one else knows about.

He understands the tears you’ve cried when no one was watching.

Jesus doesn’t promise a life without responsibilities. Instead, He invites us to exchange our crushing burdens for His yoke.

When we try to carry life alone, the weight becomes overwhelming.

But when we walk beside Jesus, He carries what we were never meant to bear by ourselves.

That’s the difference between striving and surrender.

One drains you.

The other restores you.

We often focus on physical exhaustion, but Jesus speaks directly to our souls.

Soul weariness looks like:

  • Constant worry.
  • Feeling emotionally drained.
  • Losing your joy.
  • Living in survival mode.
  • Smiling on the outside while hurting on the inside.

Have you ever slept eight hours and still woke up tired?

That’s soul exhaustion.

Only Jesus can restore what sleep cannot.

His presence calms anxious hearts.

His Word renews weary minds.

His love reminds us that our identity isn’t found in what we accomplish but in whose we are.

Reflection

What burden have you been carrying that Jesus is inviting you to surrender to Him today?

Take a quiet moment to pray, release it into His hands, and trust that His promise of rest is for you, too.

Prayer

Heavenly Father, thank you for inviting me to come just as I am. Forgive me for trying to carry burdens You never intended for me to bear alone. Teach me to trust You with every worry, every fear, and every unanswered question. Help me exchange striving for surrender and anxiety for Your peace. Fill my heart with the rest that only You can give, and remind me daily that Your grace is enough for every season. Thank You for being gentle, faithful, and always near.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

Remember that you were never created to carry every burden alone. The strongest thing you can do isn’t to keep holding everything together—it’s to place everything into the hands of the One who already holds you.

Stay fearless. Stay faithful. Stay fabulous.

Live Faithfully,

🤍Ronni Lauren

Savvy Reflections🩷: Instead of Asking “Why Me?” Ask “Why Not You?”

Hello Sassy Family! Have you ever found yourself facing a difficult season and asking, “Why is this happening to me?” Maybe you’ve experienced rejection, disappointment, loss, or an unexpected detour that left you questioning God’s plan. What if the question isn’t “Why me?” but rather “Why not me?”

Recently, God revealed something powerful to my heart. So often, when challenges arise, we immediately assume that we have been singled out for suffering. We wonder why our journey seems harder than someone else’s. We question why doors close, why prayers seem delayed, and why life doesn’t always unfold according to our plans.

But God reminded me that challenges are not evidence of His absence. They are often opportunities for His presence to be revealed.

When we ask, “Why me?” we focus on the problem. When we ask, “Why not me?” we begin to focus on the purpose.

Why not me to be the one who learns resilience through hardship?

Why not me to develop greater faith during uncertainty?

Why not me to become a testimony of God’s faithfulness?

Why not me to inspire someone else through my journey?

The truth is, growth rarely happens in comfort. The brightest diamonds withstand pressure. The most powerful testimonies are often born from life’s most difficult chapters.

Perhaps the situation you’re facing today isn’t punishment it’s preparation.

Perhaps the delay is developing patience.

Perhaps the closed door is protecting you from something not meant for you.

Perhaps the challenge is building the strength you’ll need for your next season.

When we shift our perspective from victimhood to purpose, everything changes. We stop asking why life is happening to us and start asking what God is teaching us through it.

The next time you find yourself asking, “Why me?” pause and consider a different question:

“Why not me?”

Why not be the one God uses to demonstrate faith in adversity?

Why not be the one who overcomes?

Why not be the one whose story encourages others to keep going?

Why not be the one who discovers that God’s strength is made perfect in weakness?

Your struggle does not disqualify you, it may be the very thing God uses to elevate you. The challenge you’re facing today could become the testimony you’re sharing tomorrow.

Trust the process. Trust God’s timing. Trust that He is working all things together for your good, even when you cannot see it.

Your story is still being written, and God is not finished with you yet.

Reflection Question:

What situation in your life have you been asking “Why me?” about, and how might your perspective change if you began asking, “Why not me?” and looked for the purpose God may be developing through it?

Stay Sassy. Stay Faithful. Stay True.

🩷 Ronni Lauren

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Soul Food🙏🏾🪴🩷…Fearless Faith: Remembering God Is Already Ahead of You

“The Lord Himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” ~Deuteronomy 31:8 NKJV

Hello family! There are moments in life when we step into unfamiliar territory. A new season. A new responsibility. While those moments can be exciting, they can also bring fear, uncertainty, and questions about whether we’re truly ready.

This is why Deuteronomy 31:8 is such a powerful reminder of God’s presence.

In this scripture, Moses encourages Joshua as he prepares to lead the Israelites into the Promised Land. Joshua was stepping into a major leadership role after Moses, and the weight of that responsibility could have easily filled him with doubt. But Moses reminded him of something greater than his fears:

God was already ahead of him.

That same promise applies to us today.

When we face new challenges or transitions, we often focus on what we don’t know or what we feel unprepared for. But this scripture shifts our perspective. It reminds us that before we ever arrive at the next chapter of our lives, God has already gone before us.

He has already prepared the path.

He already knows what we will encounter.

And most importantly, He promises that we will not walk through it alone.

Do not be afraid. Do not be discouraged.

Fear tends to grow when we rely only on our own strength. But faith grows when we remember that God is both our guide and our companion. He doesn’t just send us forward and hope for the best; He walks with us every step of the way.

Knowing this gives us the courage to move forward even when the path feels uncertain.

Sometimes God calls us into spaces that stretch us beyond our comfort zone. It may be a new calling, a new opportunity, or even a season of personal growth. In those moments, we are not stepping into those spaces alone.

God’s presence provides the reassurance we need to keep moving forward.

When we trust that He goes before us, we can walk confidently in the purpose He has placed on our lives.

Reflection:

Where in your life do you need to trust that God has already gone before you?

Take a moment to remember this promise: God is already ahead of you. He is preparing the way, strengthening your faith, and walking beside you through every step.

Because when God goes before you, there is nothing ahead that He hasn’t already accounted for.

And that is more than enough reason to move forward with faith.

Live Faithful,

🩷Ronni Lauren

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Soul Food 🙏🏾🪴🩷…Trust and Do Good: Living Rooted in God’s Faithfulness

“Trust in the Lord, and do good; dwell in the land, and feed on His faithfulness.”

~Psalm 37:3 NKJV

Hello family! Have you ever found yourself doing all the “right” things, yet still wondering if God sees you? You’re trusting, praying, waiting and if you’re honest, sometimes it feels like nothing is moving. Psalm 37:3 meets us right there, in that space between faith and frustration, and gently reminds us how we’re called to live while we wait.

Trust isn’t passive. It’s not pretending everything is fine or ignoring the questions in your heart. Trust is choosing God even when the outcome is unclear. It’s placing your hope in His character, not in circumstances lining up the way you planned. Trust says, “God, I don’t understand this season, but I still believe You are good.”

While we’re waiting on God to move, He calls us to keep living with purpose. Keep loving. Keep showing up. Keep being kind when it would be easier to withdraw. Doing good in the waiting keeps our hearts soft and aligned with Him.

 Don’t rush past the season you’re in. God is present here, not just in the future you’re hoping for. Dwelling means staying rooted instead of restless, choosing peace over panic, and believing that God can meet you exactly where you are.

God invites us to nourish our souls with reminders of who He’s been. Remember the prayers He’s already answered. The doors He’s opened. The strength He gave you when you thought you wouldn’t make it. When we feed on His faithfulness, fear loses its grip and gratitude takes its place.

Reflection:

Where is God asking you to trust Him more deeply and how can you continue to do good right where you are?

Prayer:

Lord, help me to trust You fully, even when the path ahead feels uncertain. Teach me to do good with a willing heart and to remain rooted in this season. Remind me daily of Your faithfulness, and let it strengthen my faith. Amen.

Family, waiting doesn’t mean wasting. God is working even when you can’t see it. Stay rooted. Stay faithful. Keep trusting. And let His faithfulness be the thing that sustains you.

Go into today choosing trust over fear, goodness over doubt, and faith over frustration!

Live Faithfully,

🩷Ronni Lauren

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Soul Food🙏🏾🪴💗…Covered in Calm: Embracing God’s Peace in Every Season

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus”. ~Philippians 4:6-7 NKJV

Hello family! Have you ever caught yourself lying awake at night, replaying the same worries over and over, wondering if this will finally be the thing that breaks you? We’ve all been there. So here’s the question: What do you tend to do first when anxiety shows up: panic, shut down, or try to fix everything yourself?

Philippians 4:6–7 reminds us that there is a better way to face anxiety whenever it tries to rise in our lives.

Instead of carrying the weight alone, we must bring every burden, big or small, before God through prayer and honest conversation. When we choose prayer over panic, surrender over spiraling, something powerful happens: God exchanges our anxiety for His peace. Not a temporary calm or a quick emotional fix, but a deep, guarding peace that covers our hearts and minds like a shield.

This passage is a gentle reminder that peace isn’t found in perfect circumstances; it’s found in God’s presence. When we release what we can’t control, we make room for the peace that surpasses all understanding to settle in.

Reflection:

What worry can you hand over to God today?

Affirmation:

I choose prayer over panic, and God’s peace covers me completely.

Live Faithfully,

💗Ronni Lauren

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Soul Food: 🙏🏾🪴🩷…Finding Strength and Shelter in the Rock That Is Higher Than You

“Hear my cry, O God; Attend to my prayer.

From the end of the earth I will cry to You,

When my heart is overwhelmed;

Lead me to the rock that is higher than I.

For You have been a shelter for me,

A strong tower from the enemy.”

~Psalm 61:1–3 (NKJV)

Hello family! Let’s be honest there are days when life just feels heavy. You’re doing your best to keep it together, but inside, your heart feels overwhelmed. Maybe it’s the endless to-do list, the heartbreak you didn’t see coming, or the quiet moments where you wonder if anyone really understands.

If that’s you today, take a deep breath because Psalm 61 is your reminder that you don’t have to be strong on your own.

David didn’t hide his struggle. He cried out to God and said, “When my heart is overwhelmed, lead me to the rock that is higher than I.” I love that. He wasn’t asking for all the answers; he was asking to be lifted higher above the noise, above the fear, above the weight of it all.

You don’t have to fix every problem or hold everything together. God is your Rock, your Shelter, your Safe Place. He’s not asking you to do more; He’s inviting you to rest in Him.

So today, instead of trying to carry it all, take your weary heart and lean into His strength. Let Him lift you higher.

Reflection:

When your heart feels overwhelmed, where do you turn first and how can you remind yourself to turn to God as your Rock and Shelter this week?

Prayer:

When my heart feels heavy and my strength fades, lead me to You; the Rock that is higher than I. Thank You for being my refuge, my shelter, and my safe place. Help me release what I cannot control and rest in Your presence. Remind me that I am never alone, even in my most overwhelmed moments. Strengthen my faith and steady my heart in You.

In Jesus’ name, Amen.

I’d love to hear from you, Sassy family! 💕

How has God been your Rock in a season when you felt overwhelmed? Share your heart in the comments below. Your story might be the encouragement another woman needs today.

Live Faithfully,

💗Ronni Lauren

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More Than a Fairy Tale: Trusting God’s Promise for Love

Hello family! Have you ever felt like God placed a specific love story in your heart? A story so beautiful that it feels like something out of a fairy tale?

Lately, God has been gently reminding me of the promise He planted within me. He’s showing me that the love story He has for me will unfold like a fairy tale written by His hand, full of wonder, growth, and a love that’s worth the wait.

As a little girl, I would spend hours playing with dolls, creating my own worlds and storylines. I didn’t know it then, but even as a child, I was shaping what I believed a healthy relationship and family could look like. Through those playtime moments, I wasn’t just passing the time I was building the blueprint for the love I aspired to experience and the life I dreamed of living. I now realize that what I created was a reflection of what my heart deeply desired for myself.

Even now, God is showing me that the love story He’s placed in my heart is not just a childish dream. It’s a promise.

Fairy tales aren’t just about magical moments and happy endings. They’re about the journey, the challenges, the waiting, and the discovery. In every fairy tale, the main character often faces detours, obstacles, and moments of doubt. Sometimes, they feel overlooked, forgotten, or stuck in an in-between season, unsure if their story will ever unfold the way they hoped.

But what makes a fairy tale beautiful is that the Author always knows the ending.

God is reminding me to wait with the same kind of hope.

To wait with trust.

To wait with patience.

To believe that even in the waiting, my story is being written, and every chapter has purpose.

Sometimes waiting feels like standing on the sidelines, watching everyone else’s story unfold while wondering if mine was ever real. But God is teaching me that I don’t have to write the story myself. I don’t have to chase it, force it, or settle for something less. I just have to trust the One who is writing it.

The love story God placed in my heart will be one of adventure, authenticity, and deep connection…Like the best fairy tales, where love finds you in the most unexpected way, where the journey matters just as much as the ending, and where the story is even more beautiful than you imagined.

If God has placed a love story in your heart, trust that He’s not teasing you. He’s teaching you. Every season of waiting, every detour, and every quiet moment is part of a divine script only He could write. Don’t rush the Author.

The story He’s writing for you will be more beautiful, more meaningful, and more full of purpose than anything you could have imagined. Keep believing. Your fairy tale is unfolding…one faithful page at a time.

Live faithfully!

Love Always,

💗Ronni Lauren

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Soul Food🙏🏾🪴🩷…When Plans Change: Trusting the Lord of the Path

“In their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.”

-Proverbs 16:9 NIV

Hello, family! Have you ever made detailed plans for your life—mapped out steps and envisioned outcomes—only to find that God took you in a completely different direction? Perhaps you thought you knew the path, only to discover you were walking one you never expected. If this has happened to you, you’re not alone. Proverbs 16:9 gently reminds us of a deeper truth: while we plan our path, God ultimately establishes our steps.

I want to encourage both you and me that, even though we may not see His plans for our lives at this moment, He will reveal them to us in stages throughout our journey. Speaking from experience, facing the unknown and surrendering control is not easy. At times, your faith may feel like it is running on empty, but we must believe in the goodness and consistency of God’s character. Everything happens so we can evolve and grow for our good.

The truth is, our perspective is limited. We plan based on what we see, but God guides us based on what He knows. Surrendering to His direction does not mean we stop planning; rather, it means we hold our plans loosely and trust His wisdom above our own. It’s like drawing a map and then handing the compass to Someone who knows the terrain far better than we do.

Have you ever seen your plans completely fall apart, only to later realize that God was protecting you or redirecting you to something better? Proverbs 16:9 is often understood only in hindsight. The first part of the verse—“In their hearts humans plan their course”—acknowledges that planning is a natural and good part of our lives. We’re meant to be intentional with our time, relationships, and work. However, if we plan without God, we risk moving in a direction that leads us away from His best.

Inviting God into the planning process means praying before acting, listening before deciding, and trusting even when things don’t go the way we hoped. Every step we take, even the ones that feel like detours, is guided by a God who sees the full picture.

Reflection Questions:

  • Have you experienced a time when your plans were redirected by God?
  • How do you typically respond when things don’t go according to your plan?
  • What’s one way you can invite God into your planning this week?

A Prayer:

Lord, I bring my plans before You today. I lay down my desire for control and invite You to direct my steps. Help me to trust that Your way is always better, even when it looks different from mine. Thank You for being the One who guides my path. Amen.

Be Encouraged and Live Faithfully!

Love,

Ronni Lauren💗

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Soul Food🙏🏾🪴🩷… Unshakable Hope: Trusting in God’s Love Through Life’s Storms

“My soul, wait in silence for God alone, for my hope is from Him.”Psalms 62:5 NKJV

Hello, Spiritual Family! Many of us can relate to the feeling of walking through a storm with no clear direction, waiting for answers, longing for peace, and hoping for relief. How often do we find ourselves questioning where to turn in these moments? It is in these very times that Psalms 62:5 serves as a powerful reminder: our hope is found in God alone.

Finding Strength in the Waiting

Believe me, waiting can be challenging at times. It often comes with frustration, doubt, and fear. But God does not call us to wait anxiously—He calls us to wait in silence and trust in Him. This doesn’t mean we do nothing; it means we choose to rest in His promises instead of relying on our own understanding.

God’s love is unwavering. Even when we don’t see the way forward, He is working behind the scenes, strengthening us for what’s ahead. I can personally testify that when we place our hope in Him, we are no longer controlled by fear, but empowered by faith.

Hope That Anchors the Soul

The world offers temporary solutions, but God provides an eternal anchor for our souls. His love is steadfast, and His plans for us are good—even when we can’t see the full picture. Psalms 62:5 reminds us to shift our focus from the uncertainties of life to the certainty of God’s faithfulness.

When we face challenges, we can either allow worry to consume us or we can choose to trust in God’s love. He sees the end from the beginning, and He promises to walk with us every step of the way.

Endurance Through Faith

Endurance is built not in ease, but in trials. God allows seasons of waiting and difficulty to strengthen our faith, deepen our trust, and refine our hearts. It is through these challenges that we learn to depend on Him more fully and experience the depth of His love in a way we never have before.

So, if you are facing uncertainties today, take heart—your hope is secure in God. He is your rock, your refuge, and your unfailing source of strength.

A Prayer for Strength and Hope

“Lord, in the midst of my waiting, help me to trust in You. When I feel uncertain, remind me that my hope is in You alone. Strengthen me to endure, give me peace in the waiting, and fill my heart with the confidence that You are always working for my good. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

No matter what you are facing today, remember this: God’s love will never fail you. Your hope in Him will never be in vain. Stand firm, trust in His promises, and let His love be your strength.

Live faithfully and hopeful!

Love Always,

🩷Ronni Lauren